The discovery of the female G-spot at one time caused a real sensation, although they still do not believe that it exists. At the same time, only a few people know about a similar men's zone, but every guy definitely has one and it is much easier to find it. All you need is good lubrication and gentle fingers. And of course, absolute trust, because not every girl has access to the most intimate.
Where is the G-spot in men?
Unlike women, who literally have to randomly search for a mystery zone, guys don't have to guess its location. In men, the "G" spot, behind which the well-known prostate is hidden, is located on the front wall of the rectum, about 5 cm above the anus. To the touch, it resembles a tuber the size of a walnut or chestnut, and swells at the moment of excitement.
To find a man's G-spot, it is not necessary to examine the anus. You can also influence the sensitive area from the outside. It is located between the anus and the base of the penis, approximately in the middle of the perineum (there is usually no hair in this area). For some guys, the erogenous zone is slightly shifted to the left or right. To find it, you can ask your spouse or girlfriend to stroke the perineal area with their tongue. From the outside, the prostate can be felt as an almond-shaped seal.
Do all men like to caress their G-spot?
Sensations from prostate stimulation can vary greatly. Some guys experience incredible joy (literally - to tears), for others it helps to maintain excitement, for others the pressure on the G-spot seems unpleasant and even painful. But it is definitely worth a try, so as not to deprive the man of a special experience. The point is to act carefully and slowly, without sudden movements or force.
A good way to test your response to stimulation of the area is to examine it during masturbation:
- Applying pressure to the area between the scrotum and the anus just before ejaculation can delay the release.
- The effect during the process forces more blood into the penis, which makes its pulsation stronger and more pleasant.
- The strong rhythmic pressure mimics the contraction process of the prostate, increasing the intensity of the last phase of orgasm.
- For greater pleasure, it is recommended to stroke the G-spot at the moment of reaching the maximum erection, as soon as the body of the penis swells along its entire length. If the sensations are unpleasant or imperceptible, wait a while. If there is still no reaction at the moment of full arousal, then this area in a given man is not considered erogenous. In this case, it is better to focus on stroking the scrotum and penis or come back to explore the area later.
How to properly stimulate a man's G-spot?
If the partner is confused or insecure, the first attempt may fail. But it is possible that later research will bring more joy if the man can actually free himself. Such games are helped by special devices (finger clamps, vibrating balls, small vibrators), which are presented in a wide variety in adult stores. You can caress the g-spot in at least two ways:
- From the inside. The finger or toy should be well lubricated and inserted 5 cm or more into the anus. You have to move towards my pubic area. You can find the sensitive "g" spot next to the tubercle on the wall of the rectum. Then you should gently massage it, observing the man's reaction.
- Outside. Here you can perform stimulation in two ways - oral or manual. A man is happy to touch the G-spot with the tip of his tongue, which can be alternated with passionate kisses. During hand caressing, a gentle, water-based lubricant improves gliding and brings more pleasure to your partner. You should massage the area with the pad of your finger using circular motions and light pressure.
At the moment of orgasm, the G-spot will pulsate. To increase pleasure, you need to influence it in time with contractions. Proponents of Eastern teachings claim that this way you can delay ejaculation and prolong sexual intercourse. In this regard, the male G zone has been called the "million dollar spot", and sexologists have developed special techniques to delay ejaculation. Such exercises will be useful in case of sexual disorders.
Is stroking the G-spot beneficial for a man?
In fact, stimulating the zone can be compared to a light prostate massage. Only the latter is carried out in a medical institution and does not always bring pleasant feelings, associating men with negativity and confusion. Stroking the erogenous G-spot in a romantic setting is quite another thing: both the atmosphere and the presence of the loved one favor the pleasure. This is a good opportunity to strengthen relationships and bring more intimate tones into them.
In terms of health benefits, regularly stroking the prostate is a good prevention of diseases of the male organ. But only on the condition that there are currently no pathologies on this side, and the massage itself is carried out gently, without unnecessary pressure. If G-spot stimulation causes pain or discomfort, it is best to consult a doctor.
It is not recommended to affect the prostate area if a man suffers from chronic and acute reproductive diseases: urethritis, prostatitis, prostatic hyperplasia or tuberculosis, urinary tract disorders, hemorrhoids, cracks in the anus, etc. When in doubt, it's optimal. use of light oral stimulation, except for anal and manual massage of the G-spot.